But…the happy news is, it gets better relatively quick one week? Just… stick 1, 2, 3?
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While certainly, they can lose tone over time usually just with aging and hormonal changes: Plenty of people with vaginas will have hymens that are mostly worn away without having had any intercourse at all. Also yeah, even with all that preparation, my first time hurt in the beginning — but the pain wasn't too bad and was gone the moment his head was in. It took a few days before we could increase that to two fingers, and then three, then finally his dick.
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I mean I've been fingered by my boyfriend before but never anything else. I was recently in the same position as your girlfriend. He'd always ask me if the angle was okay sometimes certain angles hurt even with just 1 finger and if it hurt etc, which helped us find the best angle to try putting it in. Vaginas are muscles, not slack skin.